The Crush

The Crush

Is a psychological syndrome that tell us about the excess admiration, devotion and intense emotions for a friend. (girl or guy). But isn’t a sexual thing.
Sometimes girls feel like a deep connection for another girl, it doesn’t mean they are lesbo or Bi… guys feel the same too sometimes about other guys.

anyways... the feeling is so strong sometimes, and its easy to confuse it with someone of the opposite sex. Its just a feeling in which pple have Affinities with the other person.
for example: they like same music or they feel comfortable talking or being with the other person.
It start with the simplicity knowing of their existence, their name, or since the very first time you speak, or meet the person. You instantly trust the person. In case it can be with a random person. Its a instant “click”.

It happens with family too, but its easy to understand it, cause we grow up with them.
Isn’t that you fall in love with the person, is that you love them since the moment you realize they exist.

*but there is the risk... like... if u explore it and fall for the person... it means your bi jajaja... but if u just don’t have more than the crush …then u just have the appreciation deep.

Cause (girls) with guys we take the risk really quick...and we may think we are in love for the connection... but we are not... and that’s how we loose the crush for rushing feelings that weren’t there ...besides the crush. And with strange pple... is hard to get it ...cause they are new in your life...so mind gets confuse.
And sometimes its offers as a protected friend ...someone you want to take care of.

Att. Lidy Aviles :D

I read it in a Cosmopolitan Magazine as a superficial topic, but I took the challenge and developed as a theory. HOPE IT HELPS! And you comments will be apreciate so it can be introduced at sociology study in time.

PS. One person told me that this is "platonic love", but let me explain the difference:
Plato offers the knowledge starting from Beauty, but THE CRUSH ...doesn’t start from beauty...it starts from the same essence of existence in space of the other person in our universe.